Whether you're not sure what you're experiencing is okay, or you already know something isn't right — this is a judgment-free place to find information, resources, and support.
Unsafe relationships aren't always physically violent. Controlling behaviour, manipulation, and fear can exist in many forms — and every single one of them is a valid reason to seek support.
We've gathered trusted support, information, and resources in one place — whether you need someone to talk to right now, or you're just starting to look for answers.
From understanding the early warning signs to navigating the legal system — we cover it all in plain, honest language.
All resources listed here are free or low-cost Australian services. We review this list regularly to make sure everything is current and accurate. Links to external services are provided for your convenience — By Her Side is not responsible for the content of external websites.
Laws around domestic violence, coercive control, and family law in Australia are changing. We track updates and explain what they mean for you in plain, honest language — no legal jargon.
Western Australia is progressing legislation to criminalise coercive control as a standalone offence. This is a significant shift in how the law recognises non-physical abuse — here's what the proposed laws cover, the timeline for implementation, and how it affects victim-survivors and their ability to seek help.
Read moreRecent changes to Federal Circuit and Family Court procedures mean that documented histories of family violence carry greater weight in parenting arrangement decisions. We explain what this means practically, how to document your history, and how to ensure it's properly before the court.
Read moreWhat is a Family Violence Restraining Order, who can apply, how does the process work, and what protection does it actually offer? This guide walks through the process step by step — including what happens if an order is breached and where to get help applying.
Read moreHealthy relationships aren't just the absence of abuse — they have their own positive qualities that are worth knowing. This guide explains what to look for, how to talk to a trusted adult, what to do if something doesn't feel right, and where to find support if you're in a relationship that concerns you.
Read moreOne of the most common fears for mothers in unsafe situations is what leaving means for custody of their children. This article explains what you are and aren't legally able to do when leaving with children, how to apply for urgent parenting orders, and what support is available.
Read moreBy Her Side is being built — carefully and with purpose — to become a full organisation supporting women and teenage girls across Western Australia who are in, or leaving, unsafe or unhealthy relationships. Right now, we're a growing resource. Soon, we'll be much more.
Every girl and young woman deserves to understand what a healthy relationship looks like — and to have real, practical support when something goes wrong. Our goal is to reach young people in schools, universities, and online, before and during unsafe situations, not just after. We believe in early education, honest information, and being genuinely present for the people who need us.
We're working toward a full organisation offering real, hands-on support across Western Australia. Here's what's coming as we grow:
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